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Hi Friends, It is November 1st. If you listen closely, you can hear the year-end countdown starting up. Stores are already playing holiday music, calendars are filling with parties and school events, and somewhere a group chat is asking who is hosting what. Ten weeks. That is all that is left of 2026. This is the stretch of the year where most of us quietly hand over the steering wheel. We tell ourselves we will get back on track in January. We say "it's the holidays" the way

Every organization has someone who sets direction, reviews results, and decides what to keep and what to change. In a company, that person holds an executive title. In your life, that person is you. I think of this as being a Chief Self Officer, or CSO, and I mean it less as a role you perform than as a way of being. It is a stance you take toward your own life, one of ownership, honesty, and steady attention, and once you take it, a great deal about how you approach your day

Somewhere along the way, a lot of us started treating life like it owed us something. Not out loud, not consciously, but in the quiet assumptions we carry around: that hard work gets noticed, that kindness gets returned, that things will just work out if we're good enough people. We don't say "I'm owed this." But we act like it. We wait for it. And then we're confused, sometimes bitter, when it doesn't come. I had to unlearn that slowly, and mostly the hard way. Here are five

I was at Costco this week and noticed the Halloween decorations were already out: skeletons, fog machines, giant inflatable pumpkins. It caught me off guard for a second, and then it gave me a moment to pause and reflect. Fall is coming. And with it, the whole back-to-back stretch of holidays many of us look forward to: Halloween, Thanksgiving, the December holidays, New Year's. It also put things in perspective: there are only about five months left in the year. Five months.

I've been going through a transition for a year now. It's not the brief kind that lasts weeks or months, but one that deeply embeds itself in your body, influences how you face each day, and compels you to confront what is within your control and what isn't. I'm switching jobs, and honestly, this is one of the most challenging transitions I've faced. It's chaotic and probably will stay that way until the end of the year. I've accepted that reality. That acceptance wasn't born

It's that time of year again, commencement season. There's something genuinely moving about watching graduates step off the stage and into whatever comes next. The speeches that accompany these moments can range from forgettable to truly inspiring, and I make a point of seeking out the best ones each year. While I don't get to all of them, three stood out for me this season: Eric Church, Fareed Zakaria, and Tom Brady. What surprised me most is how, taken together, they paint